11/7/2023 0 Comments Ugly dudeSo you have no grounds to be pissed off when some women respond the same way. The truth is that you won’t because you don’t desire them…and that doesn’t make you a bad person. If you’re so lonely and just want romantic connection, why don’t you date a woman who’s not traditionally attractive? They don’t get as much male attention and I’m confident you could find plenty of women who’d be open to seeing you. That’s because you don’t choose who you’re attracted to, you feel it. Second, you’re being a hypocrite because I’m sure you don’t pursue women you find physically unappealing, either. You’re not alone and in fact, you are the norm. I worked really damn hard on myself and had to gain a tremendous amount of real-world experience. Nobody looked at my chubby belly, crooked ass teeth, and thick-framed glasses and said, “Damn, I want a piece of that.” I was overweight for the first 20 years of my life and I was always a nerd (before it was kind of cool). Actually, I’m shorter than the average guy. In fact, “average” looking men have to go through the same proactive growth process as you to cultivate the romantic lives they want. I want to show you why that anger is unfounded and why you should let go of it.įirst, while some extremely attractive guys get random attention, the majority of guys aren’t swarmed by women. You hate that women can’t look past your looks to see everything else you could offer.You feel slighted that you have to put in extra work just to be given a chance when other men don’t.I find that anger usually stems from two points: It creates a cycle where women don’t respond to you because you’re angry, you get angrier, and then you face even more rejections. Then you’ll behave in ways that subconsciously communicate your true feelings to women. Therefore, how could you be excited to connect with them? If you’re trying to meet women while filled with resentment, you’ll often assume the worst about them. Angry dudes scare the shit out of women, for good reason. You will struggle to attract women If you’re vehemently angry at them. To make these changes, it starts by shifting your mindset. And THAT’S the difference between ugly guys who succeed and ugly guys who are destined to be forever alone. Those men used their energy to make forward progress in the real world. They didn’t spew misogynistic hate via internet forums for days on end.īecause again, there was no other solution to attain the connections they desired. They didn’t mope around and complain about being a victim. And they put themselves out there regularly to gain invaluable experience. They worked their asses off to become more attractive despite their genetics, both physically and mentally. So instead, they committed to changing themselves and their behavior. They also understood that most of the time, men need to take the lead in courtship. They knew they weren’t going to change what women have biologically responded to for thousands of years. They knew it wasn’t going to be easy and they started with an uphill battle. These men accepted that something needed to change. Why Some Ugly Guys Make It And Some Don’t So how have these men accomplished the so-called impossible? Hell, you can walk through a busy city center and see it for yourself. You can also find plenty of examples of successful “unattractive” men in the public eye who date attractive women. Or guys who were born with asymmetrical faces, bad skin, wide-spaced eyes, genes that made them bald in their 20s, and the dreaded weak chins. Men who were previously 50 or even 100+ pounds overweight. I’ve personally watched countless ugly men attract women that society deems beautiful. It makes you bitter, resentful, angry, and even violent towards others or yourself.īeing ugly is not a social death sentence. You can try to ignore it or choose to be voluntarily celibate, but I’ve just never seen that be a viable long-term solution.Ī lack of human connection causes constant suffering. The need for intimacy and companionship are hard-coded into your biology. There’s no other option if you want to build a happy life with fulfilling relationships. I am here to argue that you CAN and SHOULD do something about it. And yes, it fucking sucks that you got the shit end of the genetic lottery. Physical appearance matters in the real world. If you’re an “ugly guy”, I’m not here to downplay the reality. Some guys can’t get sexual partners, making them “involuntarily celibate” or “incels” as they’re called online. Less attractive people are often judged harshly and struggle to attract the people they want. The people society deem as attractive get more job opportunities, shorter criminal sentences, and more passive interest from others. That’s not a personal judgment - it’s the truth.
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